If you've been curious and how best to introduce another man into your relationship, it doesn't get any simpler, milder and non-intimate than this. I'd like to visit you, and with prior discussion, caress your partner over her clothes and then start to slowly remove them as she feels comfortable ( maybe with hubby's help?). IF she begins to feel 'that's too far' you simply say stop, and that's it. After that I leave you to continue privately as you feel fit. From my point of view I would want to exchange a few mails first to see if we are on the right wavelength, but most importantly you must be fun with a good sense of humour, not take yourself too seriously, and reply with more than three words. Age / looks unimportant, but no larger than size16 please. I don't need to do anything more than that - unless you feel you want to go further on any subsequent encounter. Totally your decision.