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I have delated our profile due to a change in circumstances, please feel free  to contact me if you like what you see. After a few wasted years I have found it to be more productive to contact particular profiles that might be good for all parties. Messages from people who seriously want to meet most welcome. I see no point in making any contact unless you are prepared to meet, and  see no point in sending endless mails that have no conclusion. I'm am not Mr Grumpy but it does need to be said, I am here to play MM, MMF, fun

Carlton Colville, Suffolk, NR33

bi male looking for nsa sexy fun with  singles or couples , tv,cd welcome too.

have played with singles and couples in the past ,would like to find a couple with a bi male for sexy times.i love the feel of a nice hard cock as well as a wet pussy. 

into most things willing to try all so please send a message if interested. 

willing to travel can accomadate occasionally,

Hi we a new to this, would like to meet genuine couples for drink, possible soft/full swap or single bi females for threesome

Up for most things, except for pain and water sports!!

Discretion and safe sex is a must,

We will be putting photos up very soon

Any other questions please ask

Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33
half term bang -
Hi Stuart here any girls up for a half term bang with rockets and bangers and a good slice of hotdog ?? x
Suffolk, IP33

I'm married to a woman, but I am gay.

She knows and doesn't approve. We no longer have sex.

I have to be very discreet as I don't tell her I meet guys.

Accom can be difficult too but not impossible.

I am submissive and bottom

I LOVE tite lycra, thongs, speedos, boxers etc

Enjoy kink, but OK with vanilla.

I stay tokai cape town October to april each year

then England Suffolk april to october

Rendlesham, Suffolk, IP12

About Me

I'm a professional guy , fit, horny, very clean, stocky build.

Presentable....I take pride in myself, and my appearance

I am now available for day time evening and night meets etc.

I'm I looking for :

Nsa fun and friendship with either a couple or female.

Who are open minded in ther sexual encounters, clean, discreet, enjoyable company, like sex, like teasing...then I would love to hear from you if you like my profile.

If I seem to be what you are looking for why not contact me and if we get on meet up for a social drink, I can travel given notice and accomadate at hotels during the week

Discression is assured and respected. So lets have some good sexy fun...

So in brief:l couple / female looking for sexy fun sessions. I'm looking for a couple or female who enjoys the sensual and erotic aspect of swinging, I am honest, genuine and reliable.

I have many fantasies . I love the idea of arranging is meet I a pub coming in seeing you sitting opposite to u. Let your wife flash at me show me her stocking tops and cleavage. If she likes what she sees in me she could go to to bathroom remove her sexy undies walk up to me and descretly hand them to me then sit back with you. Now I know we all like each other so then I can come and join you both and maybe she could feel my hard cock through my jeans.

Trimley St Mary, Suffolk

I'm a professional, laid back, articulate discrete guy based in Suffolk between Cambridge and Ipswich. I'm looking for some fun, friendship and lots of sexy adventurous frolics with a sexy female or a sexy adventurous couple! I am very openminded and love trying out new and exciting adventurous situations. Im 5'11 13 stones, 32 inch waist, slim athletic build, dark hair (going greyish now), brown eyes and have been told that I have a nice thick 8 inch cock which is kept trimmed and shaved. If anyone would like to chat or meet I would love to hear from you.


We're looking for daytime fun with bi males, females or couples. We play both together and alone. We both love giving and receiving oral and enjoy both 3somes and 4somes. Can accomodate or travel. So get in touch and let's have some fun!

Suffolk, IP12
Bi Crossdresser seeks fun -
I can usually accomodate for a meet with a little bit of notice. Once I am dressed I become my alter ego of Sarah, something that I enjoy immensely. I am a reasonably convincing crossdresser who enjoys wearing sexy undies beneath a dress or skirt and blouse. I do dress fully including wig & makeup & regularly go out socially as Sarah. I am looking for fun and games either here or at your place, with other crossdressers, females or couples. It would be nice to get a message from anyone who likes the pics. on my profile, or even from those who don't like them. Get back to me if you want to arrange a meet. Getting fed up with timewasters and no replies so please if you are genuine and looking for some sexy no strings fun then get in touch. One liners and replies with no photo will not be answered. For the benefit of the uneducated readers please note the following definitions: One liners: "hi sexy" etc. with no details about yourself. No photo: I have put a few pics of me on the advert please allow me to have at least a chance of seeing what you look like.
Stowmarket, Suffolk, IP14
Hi.....looking for club invite -
Hi ...we are a couple seeking club invites or to meet an exceptional guy ..........Face photos a must ...........
Haverhill, Suffolk, CB9

Love a lady that enjoys dressing to tease..short skirt, stockings, suspenders, very high heels, no panties, low or revealing tops...if they also enjoy going out like this, then its so very erotic for all concerned..even the people that are in same bar or restaurant

Love the cuckold scene, so if any horny couples are looking for a regular b/f for their hotwife, i'm up for it...very discreet, friendly & easy going, can travel or shifts so can be free daytimes or nights.

Beccles, Suffolk, NR34

Hi, I am a clean, friendly, reliable and discrete 50 year old. I am reasonably good looking and I have a decent body for my age. I am bi curious and a bit submissive. If you are interested or have any questions please feel free to ask.



Ipswich, Suffolk, IP1
Couple looking for couples / Bi-fems -
Couple looking for couples for good clean fun. Leah is slightly bi, but prefers a cock, brunette, brown eyes, 5'6, size 10, 32dd. Andy is str8 brown hair/eyes 6ft. We are not into pain or w/s and would prefer people UNDER 45ish ( this is a guideline) but if your over with good bodies then contact us. If we are what you are looking for, e-mail us with pics of you both. Because of time wasters,we will want to talk on the phone before meeting you. PS.. We have a web cam and would like to see other couples who are web cam users. Please only contact us if you have pics on your profile. PPS.. We have had a couple of meets with some sexy people & we are looking forward to a lot more!!!

Are you a dominant male between 44 and 60 years of age.

Are you willing to deal with a naughty male.

I am curious about being spanked by a male. I need a little obedience training my wife says.

I would like a man to see me dressed as a girl, you can choose the outfit. I can also be naked or wearing a leather pouch if you prefer.

Looking for otk spanking, paddle and possibly crop/cane.

Would also like to have my nylon clad legs caressed too.

***Wife does NOT play at present****

My Ideal Person:

Must be clean and discreet and preferably used to dealing with naughty boys.

Must be patient with me as I am new to being a sub to another man.

Would like to chat in chatroom or messages first to get to know you

Limits must be respected absolutely no"O" nor "A" at present but happy to "play" with you

Kesgrave, Suffolk, IP5



Any couples or fems want to meet 2 guys and 2 women just outside norwich

if you know the gull pub on the a146 between lowestoft and norwich then its 10 mins from there

my friend can accom for bi women/couples and straight 

 5,6,7,8 ,10 sum meet....couples are more than welcome (mature and young)


really friendly nice guy looking for fun times with hot couples and fems 
i am clean,discreet,shaved and a nice size cock
can travel and on some occasions accom in the daytime
hoping there are genuine people out there?

met some hot sexy women and would love to meet a couple who want a guy xx

Lowestoft, Suffolk, NR32

Mature couple who enjoy same/separate room fun, love to meet other mature couples,

we travel only cannot accom, Contact us for more details. We have a caravan so we will be travelling around UK during 2013, We enjoy most things, but not into pain or w/s. Friendship is important to us as well. Look forward to meeting you!

Definitely NO single males!

Update. We had a computer hardware failure so we have lost details of all those who have contacted us including friends, if you are still interested please get in touch

Suffolk, IP12

Well we've been to one club in Amsterdam when we visited there, just had a look round really. Still new to this and we're experimenting. I'm 43 and my wife is 36. Looking to meet other couples for same room fun at the moment.

Suffolk, IP7

tv/crossdresser fully shaven looking for meets love to watch and play with males females and couples.

Real meets and cyber role play kinky online fun

Enjoy playing with myself dressed while watching online porn

 No more time wasters please im here for real fun 

If interested please Feel free to whisper im not like some i do enjoy whispers and try to respond to most whispers lol

Ipswich, Suffolk, IP1

Hi, I'm easygoing, friendly in nature, broadminded and have an offbeat sense of humour, moderately hairy and in reasonable shape. I'm ideally looking for either a guy who is younger than me (18-40) and is of skinny through to no more than average build, less hairy than me would be a bonus! Or a female who is skinny/slim/petite up to the age of 50. Would definitely consider a couple, either MF or MM. Generally speaking i'm more drawn to guys, but there are certainly exceptions!  I don't drive but would travel for the right person(s)/occasion if not too far.

Chantry, Suffolk, IP2
very gen and true guy! -
I am a 46 year old/younger guy near to Ipswich suffolk (but i will travel!) I am looking for fun people to have a bit of naughty fun with (nsa). I am clean, D&D free, non-smoker (although don't really mind if you smoke) I consider my self well groomed and not pushy at all. I have met a few couples and singles before and really enjoyed myself. I am looking to meet people 18-90 and ilove being invited to watch and/or play for people, just as much as I do joining in. I always respect boundaries I won't just dive in when not wanted. I don't mind having my pics/video taken. It's all about us all having fun lots of it!
Suffolk, UK
Young guy seeks older women -
Hi, Thanks for taking the time to look ad my ad. I am a young guy of 28 who is looking to fullfill his fantasy of meeting the older women and having some fun with them. I live in norfolk and i'm willing to travel but not accomedate. All replies will be answered, so please email. send a picture if possible. -xx-

Hi we are a mature couple Pam and Tony looking to have fun times with others for mutual all round fun. We are looking for preferably travel meets rather than accommodate by arrangement. We will travel a reasonable distance say up to 30 miles. We enjoy role play fun and Pam has a good varied wardrobe. we are not into pain and have some limits (no full sex)but are happy for gentle play and oral and also quite open to experiment with new areas of play such as meeting a TV/CD Ideally we would like to meet couples with perhaps bi tendencies (although not paramount)happy for more mature men and will weed out the chancers - no winks please, simply deleted

Newmarket, Suffolk, CB8

in a LTR, but sexless, looking for no strings fun, had a few spanking sessions, love to control fems and be sub to the right ones too. Also looking for safe outdoor fun in sunny suffolk/norfolk.

Suffolk, IP2

Hi, I'm 44yrs old, 6' tall medium build well endowed and looking for fun with couples/women local to area.

I am unable to accommodate but can travel reasonable distances.

I am looking for fun indoors or out at lunchtimes now and local to Halstead.

I am also into amateur photography and would like to have couples or females pose for me to take photos (Location can be discussed).

Into all things except bdsm or S&M.

Clare, Suffolk, CO10

Mature man, expert at massage and more! Still young at heart and very fit for my age. Keen to meet females or couples. I am predominantly straight, well endowed, long stayer and repeater. Medium build, 6ft tall, articulate, educated and good company.

If you are looking for a sensual massage, quality oral, sensual kissing, prolonged foreplay and an original attitude in the bedroom, then look no further. Comfortable in a MFM situation. Also cuckolding, role play and happy with camera.

It is your personality that really matters, ok I am sure you look great, but shape and looks are less important compared with character and personality. Very happy to do initial meet for drink/coffee on neutral ground ~ try me xx

I await your message - you will not be disappointed. xx

Redlingfield, Suffolk, IP23

It’s nearly the New Year, so its time for a new profile. We’ve now tied the knot and as we're officially a couple we are now able to play together at our bijou residence by the sea (nearly) so if you'd like to meet a normal(ish) couple and you’re a normal(ish) couple of single guy drop us a line and lets see what we can come up with.

We can travel or accommodate but prefer to stay within 50 miles of home – there are some lovely people we’ve chatted with at the other end of the country but you’ve got to be realistic guys!We've had some cracking meets with couples and some lovely guys – both bi and straight and would love to meet some more in the New Year We also enjoyed a very memorable 6m2f which enabled us both to explore our bi side - great fun and heres to the next one.

We’d love to be invited to a few parties or club meets – we really must get to Club Ish in Ipswich to check it out – Club Tease and Destiny SX are just a bit too far for a Saturday night.

We'd prefer to chat over the phone first before meeting for a drink first – we often play on a first meeting as long as the vibes are right..... One thing we'd like to make very clear - gypsy is a BBW - if you can't cope with that we'll not get on and thanks for getting this far.

We've also recently discovered the joys of dressing up and both love the feel of tight pvc. Why not check out our profiles and if you like what you see get in touch - gypsy always has the last word on whether we meet or not, so you'll have to get round her first but nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Jus works shifts so a meet takes a bit of arranging, but it's worth it!!

*********************Single guys - we've had some cracking nights with single guys but have been let down once too often - if you make arrangements to meet us then leave us hanging around without even the courtesy of a "sorry" text - don't bother chasing us as we'll have moved on to someone with manners.

Suffolk, IP11
Horny Couple -
Contact us you will not be disappointed Lots of experience
Acton, Suffolk, CO10

I (James), am looking for a group of people, to help me give Erica, the most amazing time of her life........Her fantasy has always been to be taken by a group. People she does not know, and so has no responsibility for their actions. She is just used.......Held down.......taken...... 

I'd love another couple to be involved, but it obviously HAS to be 2 or 3 alpha males too.......


You need to be well hung, but more importantly, fit, muscular, handsome and willing to pleasure my Erica. Its her you are pleasuring, NOT yourself.

Clean and hygienic, prepared to ALWAYS wear a condom, but want to join in and make Erica's fantasy HAPPEN.

She will not know anything about it before hand. She will just be surrounded, and taken......

Contact me now.......

Martlesham Heath, Suffolk, IP5

Just the male half playing now. (yup it's complicated!) But looking fun mmf encounters, bi-curious or straight, kinky or vanilla, just as long as everyone gets off :-)

Also into exploring some fetish play too, so ask away if interested.

Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33

Hi we are both keen to meet new friends for horny, touchy feely nights out and more. She always dresses to impress while he enjoys looking on lol ;-) If you fancy a good night out (in), get in touch. Thanks for reading speak soon, horny Suffolk couple x

Lowestoft, Suffolk, NR32

October - went to Erotica photo of me in leather mini is what I wore did anyone see me there?

A bit about us – we had a long period of swinging which we finished about 4 years ago. We probably went a bit to mad and meet a few couples and I meet a serious number of guys. We are now looking to get back into scene but at a slow and steady pace.

Myself – in the past I have been a very very very naughty wife who has to admit to liking a little more than my husband gives me! By this I mean in the attention excitement feelings and physically in the size department my husband is circ 5 inches and has a very small girth. But this is ok because he gets very excited when I get what I want. I do love my husband very much and would not change a thing about him and his quirky ways.

I am a mature mid 40’s lady circ size 14 shaven pussy which I love being licked a few tattoos with huge 38DD breast which have big pierced nipples which I love being suck. I tend to like being told what to do and for the man to take the lead. I love giving oral and will swallow (but not my husbands!) and I love being fucked but not into 1 hour marathons. I am most defiantly not in to other ladies and I do not like A full stop coma coma full stop.

We are also both keen to see where the cuckold scene can take us so suggestions ideas are more than welcome. Especially ideas on what else I can do to cuckold my husband?

My husband loves to watch me having sex with other guys whilst this is cuckolding. We are not into extreme aspects (may be we should try) although I must admit we both like it when I am fucked bareback by a well endowed guy and the guy cums inside me. I love the attention my husband gives me afterwards and I love making him clean me up. Trust me it makes him hard for weeks afterwards and he can’t keep his hands off me mmmmmmm.

If my Husband had his way the adverts and profile would simply read “cuckoldress looking for VWE 6 inch plus males to fuck me NSA no guy over 8 inches will be refused as long as 1- you are either black or white 2 – you have no heavy beard 3 - you are willing to fuck me bareback 4 – you are within 90 minutes of us 5 - you are not likely to be know to us” what do you think about what my husbands advert would say? Do you think it is right? I like the idea but doing it makes me nervous?

We have been dogging in the past and may give this a try again


I am willing to web cam with couples and guys and sometimes my husband will join in I am happy to be directed and chat on line. We/I would really like to chat with couples who have the same interests as us (lets exchange some ideas etc..)


I will meet males again but not in huge numbers I have no size or age preferences but you must be willing to fuck me bareback – we are clean and expect the same of you. I am more than willing to meet VWE and/or Black guys. Girth is also every good and I would choose girth over length any time.

It might be nice to meet an experienced bull who understands the dynamics of a cuckold marriage who could teach us more about it.

I may consider meeting a Bull on a regular basis who I would offer totally unrestricted access to me when ever and what ever he wanted.

COUPLES We have meet couples in the past and may consider this in the future again. Would really be interested in chatting webcam with a couple who are fully into the cuckold life style to help me learn more and maybe meet up with them


Winks, empty profiles and no pics will be ignored and deleted. We are willing to travel to you in your house or hotel up to about 90 minutes of Ipswich for the right meeting. We will also meet guys in our car (we will call this selective dogging) but will only drive short distances for this so you really need to come to us although we could collect you from the railway station and return you there. We will not accommodate. Early web cam chat or telephone conversation will be required. One liners and winks will be deleted a nice message with a face photo is far better than no photo or a promises of one to come. I will not meet alone and Hubby will be present at all meetings

Ipswich, Suffolk, IP1
Testing the water -
Hi we are an attractive professional and very happily married couple new to the scene and deeply in love. Married for 15 years now. We are both 100% straight, although the husband will definitely be taking an active role not simply watching. We are initially looking for genuine patient and honest non smoking (the lady likes to kiss) Males who are 100% unattached for gentle introduction into the lifestyle and mmf threesome encounters, no 1 to 1's the lady will not meet anyone alone. Age and size of endowment is not an important factor but we imagine somebody in the age range 25-55, although that is not set in stone.. Interested in real sensuality and eroticism, soft music, massage, wine and candles, generally gentle soft lovemaking not hard or rough although if the lady asks she gets whatever she desires, no kinks or fetishes thank you, please note the lady does not enjoy anal sex, only normal straight gentle fun and pleasure between consenting adults, only protected intercourse will be considered but the lady very much enjoys giving oral stimulation uncovered possibly to completion depending on mood and situation and will appreciate receiving the same gift from her chosen lover. The lady will be in total control of events at all times and the focus of attention pleasuring her will be your main task, she is not be used rather she is to be enjoyed your pleasure must come from giving her pleasure first and foremost and you must ensure that she enjoys you . This will be not just about the orgasms but the prolonged journey to those mutual climaxes, with all three parties having fun and laughter as well as intense pleasure.We are known as sensualcpl easy to find if you think about it we could exchange mail which could be very hot . We have fantasised about this for some time, so far we have enjoyed encounters where the lady has been flirtatious and teasing with guys , we both loved this and the reactions she got, so have decided to take the next tentative step by placing this ad on this site and some others, we are not yet paid members until we decide which site to subscibe to depending on the responses we get.. We realise the huge step we are taking in our relationship to move from a fantasy into a real event but we both are now ready, comfortable and excited to take that step. We need to be friends with you, the lady need to be attracted to you, fancy you, want you, after all you will be the first man apart from her husband to make love to her for many years, we both feel that is a very special gift we will be giving you, so the event will be very special and not rushed, friendship is very important to us before we could contemplate intimacy. We are in no hurry, you have to be 100% right for us both, so you will need to be patient with us, it is very unlikely you will join us in bed at the first meeting, it will be up to you to seduce the lady and make her want you, but if you are willing to understand our needs, desires and our boundaries the rewards will be wonderful for you as well as us when that special moment arrives, the lady really is a wonderful lover. Thank you for reading our ad, wishing you sensual and erotic encounters.
Ipswich, Suffolk, IP1

We are a happily married couple who are interested in friendship as well as sex. We love the social side of meets as much as anything else. We love good eateries and wine. And have a hate for fast food whether it be from a fast food outlet or a pub/hotel. We have been together since Mrs sun was 16 and in 6th form. And if you have any problems with that (Yes one couple thought we were disgusting,) You may as well press the back button now.

We have our own rules for meeting peeps and if you don’t like them you once again have the option of pressing the back button.

Mrs sun is 18 years younger than me so we see ourselves at a disadvantage on the swinging scene. But please don’t let it put you off contacting; you might just be mildly surprised.

Mrs sun is slim size 14 having now lost 7 stones over the last 2 years; I am larger but have now lost 4 stones with some more to go. We both work out at the gym. Sorry but I still have a bit of a beer belly, cant seem to shift that. lol. We are looking to meet couples, any age, straight or bi. For soft or full swing. Single bi fems, and both straight and bi curios single guys.

We would also love invites to parties and social events as long as they are within travelling distance (East Anglia).

We always meet socially first and that may or may not lead to more at that time. But please don’t turn up on first date expecting to shag straight off.

We are honest to a fault and require the same from you. We are also squeaky clean. If it is found you have body odours or any health probs we shall tell you and say NO THANX.

We can travel evenings and are willing to share hotel expenses. We can only rarely accommodate because we have a daughter at home.

We do not like a lot of body hair. We both hate hairs in our mouths. And as the mouth plays such a large part in our play, you must be at least neatly trimmed, at best completely bereft and smooth. Mrs sun is completely smooth and I am neatly trimmed.

We like total swop but prefer all in together, Mrs sun like soft bondage and oral but no anal, Yet! she is totally bi but willing to play straight.

I will try anything at least once and have fantasies so ask.

We are not into ping-pong messaging, and we do not cam until after we have met up. We would rather meet and talk face to face over coffee, or a drink. And then either agree to meet again or go our separate ways with no hard feeling. (pun intended)

There are so many time wasting wankers on this site that we have made up one more rule: If you don't show up or cancel at the last minute for any reason except your own funeral you will be blacklisted, and a message left on your profile to that effect.

We will only answer people with pics on their profile. And a face pic attached to their letter. We will not answer one-liners; “Please see my pro etc.,” we will look at that anyway. We need to know something about you.

Please read our profile before contacting.

Brandon, Suffolk, IP27

*** Where are all the genuine ladies on here? ***

Before you read this, please only genuine ladies or female couples please, fed up of timewasters and guy's pretending to be ladies or part of a couple. And those who wont exchange numbers to show they are genuine or meet when arranged.

And definatly no gay or bi men, I am a straight hetro male, so guys, I'm NOT interested.

If you are genuine, then please read on.

Hi and thanks for reading. I hope what you read on my profile, will be of interest. I am looking to meet a female friend who would like to form a discrete relationship for some very horny fun together, to embark on an 'affair', and I would really like to make the most of this opportunity. I envisage night time fun at your house or in my bed. I would like to meet someone who is prepared to spend a little time together, maybe going out for a drink or walk, and not just meet for sex, as this is always good for building up the excitement, nothing like a bit of teasing in public......! Anyway, I hope this has grabbed your attention, I will put more info and detail in any future correspondence. Look forward to hearing from the right lady.

Please no winks. If your interested, then take the time to write, and I will reply.

I'm not looking for one night stands and I'm not looking for lots of ladies, just one special lady.

I am very clean and discreet and will expect the same. I am also a very heavy cummer and repeater.

If you live along the A14, A12, A13 or A1 corridor, then even better, as I travel those routes quite often.

*** As with my nickname there is a very high pregnancy risk. ***

Just to add, as I am Dom.,

A good rule to go by is: "Submissives may have thicker skins, but they have weaker hearts. Fuck them roughly, but love them tenderly."

Alot of so called subs, on here, appear to be fakes, timewasters, picture collectors, and many just dont have the decency to reply to their message's, even if it's just to say no thanks.

You must be honest, trustworthy, have integrity, self-control, a sense of humour, the capacity to love, be loved and to express that love, a desire to learn and grow, be dependable, have an open mind, be respectful, obedient, deferential and not afraid to stand your ground when needed. I am in Suffolk, but work also takes me into Essex and Cambridgeshire. I do NOT give financial aid.

I dont play games, beat around the bush or bullshit. I am a real person looking for a real long term relationship, If you want to waste someones time find someone else. I am looking for a real person who wants to have something real together.

Whichever type of woman you are, I start where you are, where you are on your path of submission.

I have also been a sperm donor for quite a few married ladies, both on this site and others, so if your looking for a discreet donor, feel free to message me here.

Suffolk, CO10

OK ... so I'm ancient ... but I'm still sexually optimistic and I enjoy both ... nudity ... and ... sex .. for its own sake!

I have been single since my dearly loved wife died at the beginning of 2011.

My home is near to Bury St Edmunds and is ideally suited for use as a venue for all manner of sexual activities... so I have made a decision to do just that .... starting now!

There is plenty of space both indoors and outside for the enjoyment of whatever gives you pleasure ... from simple, sexless, social nudity, through all aspects of consensual sexual activity.

There are no nosey neighbours to worry about so the ladies can squeal as loud as they like when they orgasm ... even if they are outside at the time ... and there is plenty of private parking space.

I am hoping to create a 'club' atmosphere ... NOT the sleazy nightclub type of club with flashing lights, deafening disco 'music' and extortionately priced drinks ... but somewhere more homely and relaxing, where strangers can meet, get to know each other, become friends, have a coffee, a laugh, get touch-feely with each other ... then ... if and when it feels right ... fuck ... either in private or wherever they happen to be ... simple as that!

I would like to invite couples and single ladies, to get in touch so that we can arrange other get togethers for whatever kind of sexual event you want ... or you can arrange your own 'ad hoc' sexual events here.

As far as possible I want to offer an 'open house' venue for whatever sex related activities everyone wants.

As a lifelong nudist I will also welcome anyone who just wants to come here to be naked ... with or without any sexual implications ... but ... SEX ... is my main priority!

This venture will be driven by demand so that everyone's personal preferences can be catered for .... tell me what you want and I will do my best to make it happen.

You will not be committing yourselves to anything by contacting me.

I look forward to hearing from you.


Well, that was then, this is now … January 2016.    The house has been sold … and I have re-married.    I have told my new wife of my love of swinging but although she has given me the liberty to indulge my lustful desires whenever I have the chance … she is adamant that she will never join in.

So all my dreams of a 'sex club' have come to nothing, as I no longer have the venue … nor a working cock!   (of my own)

I still have a burning desire to plunge my face into women's naked crotches though!

Rougham, Suffolk, IP30

I am a charming cheeky guy out here to meet fun loving couples and ladies who likes to explore more excitement in life. I am an intelligent guy,adventurous and know exactly what I like.

I haven't set a stone for things I like and to do, I'm flexible and willing to try new things.

A hard working guy and always try to keep myself fit and healthy.

I am a genuine and professional guy in my work and social life. It would be nice to know who I'm meeting and whether we got chemistry in between us, so I prefer to know you better prior to our meet.

I have no issues about being around other guys and will go with the flow as the situation allows. I am flexible with the right couple.

Love the whole role play and meeting up in a pub chatting your partner up flirting, bit of touching and the three of us going somewhere quieter. I have been lucky enough to meet few nice people and like to meet couples who are either new to this or experienced.

I am not pushy and just go with the flow but sometimes when in the right moment I take the leade and will be dominant or if it's with the right couple I would be happy to be submissive.

I love to use my tongue and then take control.Also into the Cuckold scene, love a couple who know their place and humiliate the cuck and make him watch as I enjoy his lady.I am open to many suggestions on this front.

Really enjoy flirting and a social meet first is great as we can find out if we click and fancy one another. For me the flirting is half the fun!!! If I say am going to be there I will turn up as none of us want to be messed about, as a busy person I know how valuable is time, not only time but hopes and efforts.

I get turned on knowing the other party is getting turned on so be warned its NOT all about me.Not here chasing perfection.

I dont mind having my pics or video taken. Love threesomes or more but also have no problems in being watched.

I am flexible colour, age or race will not be a matter for me to say no. I like clean neat people as long as they have endless priceless smile on them.

Lets have some fun as at the end of the day that's what we are on here for is it not!

p.s. Love to meet people in social events so I am more than happy to visit clubs and house parties and Don't worry I would love to contribute as well. :D

Risby, Suffolk, IP28


We have been on �the scene� now for over 4 years but cannot be considered hardened swingers. We have met with couples with varying degrees of success from just chatting to soft swap through to full swap. But it is often a hit and miss scenario normally because there isn�t always a four way match.

We have also experienced a number of different parties and venues, which we have often felt has had something lacking. Ranging from poor hosts, to poor venues, too big or too small. Sometimes unwelcoming and too cliquey or perhaps left in a corner, too old or too young, or too many single males.

All in all what should and could be a straightforward evening of fun and sex results in wasted time and money, frustration and sometimes awkward embarrassment.

However we love the eroticism of swinging and parties but sometimes just like to watch sometimes to exhibit, sometimes flirt and soft swap and sometimes go for the full monty.



We are now holding small parties (upto 20 couples) where couples that are invited to attend have similar tastes, preferences, likes and dislikes thereby creating an easy no pressure ambiance. Fantastic food is combined with adult fun and games.

We do not have single males at our parties.

If you would like an invitation to one of our parties please do get in touch. We will also be delighted to hear of any suggestions and ideas you may have.







x x S & D x x

Wise Decision -
Thank you for reading this: Hi, I’m a handsome, clean cut, well groomed professional black male residing in Suffolk County. I’m about 5’10, 180, and equipped with the right tool for my make and model. In addition, I also enjoy nights of ignited passion and prolong pleasure. I’m D/D free, polite, str-8, fit and enjoy working out. I try to be a clear, open, responsible communicator and listener, as I believe that is one of the greatest gifts a man can give a woman, couple or himself. I’m also thoughtful, attentive and confident which makes for building a great relationship an easy endeavor. I can also be committed to our relationship exclusively for the long haul whether, single or a couple. This in my opinion can attract a powerful, passionate partnership, which I take as a compliment and validates our worthy trust. When it comes to fun I can be creative, playful, and passionate. I can also be deeply concerned about my partners’ needs or their wishes if a couple (again I’m str-8). I also support no strings attach, no pressure relationships. I also know how to see and take care of another's desires. While I know taking care of one’s own need is not an easy thing, however I’m willing to try, without sacrificing myself. Eventhough not necessary, I’m responsible financially and professionally. I believe in dreams, and working on making them happen. I can be both frugal and generous. I enjoy all types of music, dinner, drinks and some sports. I’ve been in the lifestyle for a little over 3 years. I enjoy meeting (genuine) new women, and couples who enjoy discreet erotic, spontaneous, no strings/pressure or planned play. I have several sexual interests from foreplay, receiving/giving oral, watching and making a few sexual fantasies i.e. role play/perform while hubby watches/interracial come true for single woman and couples. If you’re interested please let me know. In closing, please feel free to send me a note with a pic and I will do the same. I would like that. I will try my best to return your notes. Thank you
Suffolk, IP28
Suffolk pair looking for fun -
Hi there, thanks for checking us out. We are a nice friendly, clean, discrete n/s couple, we used to say we were obnoxious, smelly braggers on 2oo a day but found we didn't have much success, hoping to meet up with similar, not obnoxious etc lol, within 1hrs drive (preferably less) of our hometown for fun get togethers as and when time, kids etc allows. Ann is 5'2", size 10-12 with nice 36c boobs and is bi, not essentially so but certainly another dimension to an evenings fun if the other lady is so inclined or reclined for that matter! Gary is 5'8" with a stocky muscular build and is str8 and a genuinely nice chap, who is respectfull to a ladies wishes, certainly not heavy handed and loves to give pleasure in any way he can (see below for exceptions) We would like anyone we meet to appreciate the the same things as us which are, sexily dressed ladies, stockings and heels (hopefully kept on for sex), oral, toys, maybe a little photo/video fun and same room safe sex with everyone joining in and doing whatever cums naturally, while of course respecting each others limits. We generally like to first meet up for drinks progressing to soft play and maybe full swap fun. We are definitly not into the usual no no's, pain, w/s and that sort of thing. If you are interested please get back to us, we would prefer it if you have photos on your add, but if not no problem, we will be more than happy after initial contact to supply you with our personal email address where we will welcome a tastefull clothed/unclothed (up to you) pic of you both, including faces and we can then give you an invite to our private gallery. Now for a few sorries'...Sorry but can't accommadate due to young teenagers at home, sorry but don't have time to messenger and sorry no single males. Won't capitalise guys as we don't want to be rude and shout but just respect our wishes as it saves everyone's time After all that we are really looking forward to hearing from you. Ann and Gary xx
Professional Fun Seeking Couple Seeking Erotic Encounters -
We are Sharon and David, a genuine professional couple looking to meet other couples and females, for friendship, travelling, social fun and hooking up to attend parties and clubs. We are attractive, sociable, enjoy good food, wine company and stimulating conversation. Both our boys have now flown the nest to university (just coming home when their bank reserves have dried up !!), giving us much more free time. We now feel that we would like to spread our wings and start re-living. We have been to two swinger clubs (Chameleons, and Vanilla Alternative) which we really enjoyed, though we did not play and looking to go again very soon. We have also attended a party in Mildenhall on a few occassions which was fantastic, and has given us more confidence. We would love to attend other clubs and parties too. We are looking for couples and females who like us are very sociable, enjoy a good laugh and are friendly and respect that we are very new to the scene and therefore respect our wishes and nervousness. Sharon is intelligent, articulate and enjoy's reading, cooking and films. A fantastic host and hopefully we shall soon be able to accommodate small groups. Sharon also enjoy's good conversation, company and has a great sense of humour. David enjoy's most sports though has long hung up his boot's. Also enjoy's photography, socialising and has a wicked sense of humour. We both enjoy dressing smartly and David adores ladies who put the effort in wearing quality lingerie and stockings. Though initially shy, we are good company once the ice has been broken, after a couple of glasses of wine. If interested in us, please cum and say hello. Sharon & David : david.sharon1989
Great Cornard, Suffolk, CO10
friendly couple seeking friends and fun pics to follow soon today xx -
We are married, with a family, they WILL always come first. We are looking for happy, friendly couples and bi females. We are definitly up for fun with couples and fem on fem play, only if the fem likes it, not for show for partner. We are up for doing/trying most things but not interested in full penetration from others or watersports. anything else just ask, the worst we can say is "no", lol. We are laid back and can meet for drinks if desired or play on first meets if everyone is happy. We can take it as fast or slow as you wish, though if you want to move fast, we do have a life and not always available at a drop of a hat. We are happy to meet newbies, as slow as they need, definitly no pressure here. And love people who know what they want too, love to feel desired. We are both shaven and would like the same in return please, or at least very trimmed. We can acodate when the teen is away for play nights (as long as you are not a screamer, lol) We can also ac for drinks any evening. We can travel no more than an hour away for play dates at yours with arrangements for sitters taken care of. Drop us a line at jamesnsues at This is the only way we can get to know you and ivite you round, or visa versa. Or send a message with face pic and/ or friend invite here on fab. We can cam to verify, and would like the same in return, we have e across those men pretending to be a couple or a female. We love the social side too, so even if you dont fancy us, we dont mind chatting or going out for an evening. So newbies and experienced people please drop by and say hi if you like the look of us, look foward to hearing from you xx
Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33

We are out of the country at the moment, and will be for a while yet. We are checking mail from time to time, so feel free to drop us a line. To the good friends we've made through here, see you soon.

We are a mid thirties reasonably attractive couple. We've fantasised about various combinations of cock and pussy for ages and now we're thinking of going a step further.

Really we'd love to meet another couple like us with whom we could cam with to start off and then who knows.

Not Set
I'm no fred flintstone but i'll make ur bedrock -
I crave what the poet Richard Siken wrote of in “Crush.” But I understand that love is sometimes more like “you fit into me” by Margaret Atwood. James Bond is my mentor and The Most Interesting Man in the World is my life coach. A modern day Arthur Rimbaud, if you will. Recently my best friend paid me this compliment: “you navigate seamlessly between fun and serious, sensual and sexual, romantic and raunchy”. You can get a grasp of what I’m like from my friends prospective from this quote, and the “raunchy” part I hope is more about my sense of humor. Lol. Six things I could never do without: •Great food •Music •5 Senses •Love •Sex •Adrenaline I used to say the ocean/beach, but I’ve since learned that I would give up the beach for some daily spooning. (the hugging kind) I spend a lot of time thinking about: When will the world get male birth control pills? What if the hokey poke is what it’s all about? How to make more desserts on the BBQ. If everyone Wang Chungs tonight, what would tomorrow be like? Or the great debate of green vs red Tabasco, do you want the heat or the flavor Im looking to explore my naughty side with someone who I can create a connection with mentally and sexually. So good conversation is a great starting point, see if it develops into somthing more. I dont care about age as I see people as individuals, not numbers. I am open to regular meetings if things go well. More photos and face pics are available on request. Im also willing to travel to you if need.
Akenham, Suffolk, IP1
Kinky Bi Couple -
Hello swingers We are an attractive happy go lucky Bi ish kinky ish couple Seeking Bi couples Bi Tv Cd and undies clad sissy's who need using and spanking by my man whilst i watch and play with my pussy. I am a sexy size 12/14 with pert 34 E boobs and am shaven I like to play with girls but also like a nice big cock if one is available. I may entertain a single bi guy but only sissy effeminate types who need spanking correction from my man, you will be expected to suck his cock for my amusement but plz note if your a bi single male and not a sissy you must be 8 inch plus as Rob has a loverly 7 inch veiny cock so I already have that to service me. I like to play with girls but please no tickling and hair stroking I want good full on sex, toys and maybe girl girl fisting. I am able to be submissive and play with dominance depending on who I find myself with! We like clean polite articulate friends to enjoy social meets in and out that can turn sexy if the mood allows Not to many negatives but we deffo won't entertain long pubes (yuck) We both have high profile jobs and none of our friends know our secrete life and we want to keep it that way. If you are articulate warm discrete and easy to get on with with a passion for kinky capers behind closed doors we would like to hear from you, I have tried to be honest and open as we only wish to attract the right play mates, I may be the school teacher or librarian next door so discretion is important. thanks for reading Della xx
Somerleyton, Suffolk, NR32

I'm a newly single bi female looking for like minded women and couples for some no strings fun!

I have been swinging for a few years now, previously as part of a couple, but am newly single and looking to carry on the fun! I am up for most things and always looking for new experiences! :o) And i quite like the idea of just watching, so if your looking for someone to perform to, give me a shout, I can always join in if it feels right on both sides....

If you like the look of my profile, please send me a message - make the effort and write something rather than just requesting me as a friend and you'll be much more likely to get a response from me! :o) Please also make sure you have some pictures, preferably including a face pic!

I confess that I am quite fussy when it comes to finding people and couples I want to play with, so please don't be offended if you don't get a positive response. I get a lot of messages, so if it takes me a while to get back to you, again, please don't be offended - I'm friendly, promise :o)

I regularly go to clubs, so if you fancy meeting somewhere, thats always good!

I can travel within reason, but afraid I can't accommodate - sorry!

Single guys - your welcome to get in touch, but please include a message! I'm here in particular to look for other like minded women and couples, but if the right guy comes along, I may well be tempted :o)

Anyways, think thats all! Thanks for looking and hope to hear from you soon. x

Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33

Hi all

I am a pre-op TS, living in Suffolk.

I love the usual - cinema, theater, pubs, walks by the sea, being in water, nights in at home, eating out in nice restaurants.

But I also love swinging clubs, naturist clubs.

As well as being a swinger I am a lifestyle naturist, spending most of my time at home naked, but also going to places like Paradise Spa in London.

My personal liking is for tall, young, hairy, bi guys. I also prefer gentlemen with a smaller than average endowment, especially in thickness. I am looking for both play partners and long term partners. I don't believe that one person can be everything. It's undue pressure to try and be perfect. So having a couple or 3 boys to share my life with, emotional and physical, would be heaven :D

If you are not bi or curious about being with a TS then please move on.

If you are not into women of a larger size then please move on.

If you are a smoker then please move on.

If you do not like kissing and cuddling then please move on.

If you are not into oral on male genitals then please move on.

If sex automatically means anal to you then please move on.

If you are over 40 then there is little chance I am going to fancy you, sorry.

If you are female or a TV/TS/CD then please move on, sorry.

I have photos of me on my profile and I expect you to have the same if you want a reply to any messages.

Ipswich, Suffolk, IP1

A more mature couple, with a wife who has MS but is still articulate and mobile, as well as being very sexually active, are looking for other couples, one of whom may have alternate abilities or be disabled, for collective sexual fun and games. Consideration is a must.

We are looking for people, who would wish to take an easy approach to sexual fun before rushing into things. We would like sharing, caring people who would prefer an erotic relationship based on trust, discretion and mutuality. This is not for the sexual predator. We would like friendship with frisson, with fun being a major component. We are not looking for separate room, vanilla, one on one, sex.

We are seeking another couple so that together we can enjoy same-room enjoyment we would wish for more innovative ways of joining together. This could appeal to those seeking something else to share with their partner.

We live in north Suffolk, and regretfully cannot accommodate people overnight since it is only a small bungalow, but we do have room for play. We would also be willing to travel for the right persons.

Since we do not work we are available for weekdays as well as weekends. Photos returned after receipt of yours.

No single men, time-wasters or picture collectors. We maybe mature but we are not desperate.

Suffolk, IP27
Looking For Fun x -
We are a couple very much in love and secure. We ahve been to a party, met couples one on one and been to a club, so not toatally new but not harden swingers either. Hlb (she) is bi and loves some girl on girl fun, but this is not a necessity, has nice figure for age and loves most things that go with swining. Bish (he) is bald and dam sexy also looks good for his age loves everything that goes with swining also. Not found our limits but love soft swing, full swop and have to say always been same roon fun, but who knows in the heat of the moment, we like to go with the flow. want to meet genuine none time waster couples has to be localish or they have to be willing to travel due to kids, maybe in future we can travel further. Looking for a bi femail for some FFM fun. Also a nice single guy for some MMF . LOVE partys so any invites will be most welcome. Please would like to see face pics early on to save time as there has to be attraction ( partys are not quite the same ), not into endless email but nor do we jump into bed with just anyone. Please have decency to reply and not waste time as our weekends are our time and dont wanna be wasting them waiting on people or sat in hotels for people who dont turn up . Janet & Bish xxxx get in touch if you like what you have read xx
Suffolk, IP30
Just looking for relaxed fun -
Hi all! Well I've done 6 impossible things before breakfast so thought I'd try and get a response on here as a single guy (I'm not stupid so I know the odds are against me). First off I'm Bi and not curious (I was but my curiosity was satisfied). I've had 'relations' with guys and girls individually but would really love to try both at the same time. I've done most things except receiving anal but would be willing to give it a go with the right person / people. I'm happy with photo's and videos as long as I get a copy. I'm pretty laid back and would like to meet the same. Regular meets are a definite possibility if we gel. I like to make sure that everyone enjoys themselves. I LOVE oral (especially giving) and am also into caressing and massage. That said, a good hard fuck is nice too if that's what you're into. I'm new to the swinging scene. I tried it before and didn't get any joy. Most people where "behold my massive cock!", etc and that's not my style. Sex should be fun and I'm all about the fun. I am drug and disease free. I do smoke but can lay off the fags for a few hours while I'm with you if you don't. Besides, the hot end gets in the way! Feel free to drop me a line if you're interested. I can also accommodate if necessary.
Suffolk, IP2

We are a couple who are interested In meeting  couples of similar age for fun and friendship.Wife is Sexy and fun and her fantasy is to have a very week endowed lover to join us for threesomes and to satisfy her needs. 
Husband is 100% straight. We are happily married and seeking a lovers to meet up on regular basis for sexy fun. To enjoy threesomes and foursomes as well as some one on one dates with our new found freinds.
Ideally we are looking for a nice couple ,We can meet at a spa hotel for a weekend or you stay at ours ,You can be married or single. You need to be a couple who understands that a no means no when requested.. You also need to be discreet.
My wife would like a man who wont be embarrassed having threesomes. She loves the attention of two men and to be massaged. We are both 100% straight. Also should be comfortable if hubby takes private photos/video sometimes.
Please send us a recent photo first. Initially there would be a meet either with my wife alone or both of us depending what's easiest. This would just be for a drink for my wife to get to know you first. There needs to be some chemistry with the couple so it's not just a one off session of releasing so sexual tension.

Suffolk, UK